The relationship between Kate Middleton, Princess of Wales, and Meghan Markle, Duchess of Sussex, has been a subject of intense scrutiny a…
The relationship between Kate Middleton, Princess of Wales, and Meghan Markle, Duchess of Sussex, has been a subject of intense scrutiny and speculation since Meghan joined the British royal family. Their shared love for tennis saw them attending Wimbledon together, projecting an image of camaraderie. However, recent insights and body language analyses suggest that their relationship was far more complex than their public smiles indicated.
In 2018, Kate and Meghan attended the men’s semi-final at Wimbledon, sparking hopes of a budding friendship as they were seen laughing and chatting in the royal box. Yet, beneath the surface, body language expert Judi James identified signs of underlying tension. “
Their first visit to Wimbledon came at a time when expectations were still running high that these two women might be best friends,” James told The Mirror. “What we saw from their body language then was a display of politeness that didn’t totally suggest close friendship bonds.”
James observed that while Kate played the role of a well-mannered host, and Meghan appeared to enjoy her company, there were few indicators of a deepening relationship. Their laughter seemed genuine, but the absence of relaxed postures and increased eye contact suggested a lack of genuine closeness
By 2019, during another Wimbledon match, Meghan was seated between Kate and her sister, Pippa Middleton. This arrangement was perceived as a gesture of family unity, but James noted it highlighted a lack of progress in their relationship. “By the time of the second visit, there did appear to be some subtle signs of potential tension from Kate, who seems to have taken a more ‘adult’ stance,” James noted. “Kate was still very much the polite and friendly host, but it is pretty obvious the bonding signals were showing no signs to hint of any growing or matured levels of closeness or rapport behind the scenes.”
James pointed out that although the two women laughed and conversed, their smiles quickly faded once they turned away, lacking the exchanged glances and mirroring that suggest a deep connection. “Meghan tended to mirror Pippa more than Kate and to relax a little more while she was talking to her,” James explained.
Behind these public displays, tensions were brewing. In his autobiography, Prince Harry detailed several instances of clashes between Meghan and Kate. One notable incident involved a disagreement over bridesmaid dresses that left Meghan in tears. Another saw Kate asking for an apology from Meghan after she accused Kate of having “baby brain” following the birth of Prince Louis. Harry’s revelations painted a picture of a relationship fraught with misunderstandings and conflicts.
Meghan herself addressed these tensions during her 2021 interview with Oprah Winfrey. When asked about her relationship with Kate, Meghan remarked, “When you say, ‘Was it what it looked like?’ my understanding and my experience of the past four years is, it’s nothing like what it looks like.” She revealed that despite public appearances, she did not feel as welcomed and supported by the royal family as it seemed.
Further evidence of their strained relationship emerged during a charity polo match shortly after Wimbledon. Despite being in close proximity, the body language and lack of engagement between Meghan and Kate indicated that their relationship had not improved.
The complexities of their relationship were compounded by broader dynamics within the royal family. The rift between Prince Harry and Prince William added to the tension, making it even more challenging for Meghan and Kate to form a close bond. As Judi James noted, “Both must have been aware that their husbands were struggling with their rift and this would have made it even more difficult.”
Despite the public smiles and shared appearances, the relationship between Meghan and Kate was far from the idealized friendship many hoped for. The intricate web of personal and familial tensions created a challenging environment for any genuine bond to flourish, revealing the true complexity behind the royal facade.
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